Temperature play involves the erotic use of heat or cold to stimulate the skin and nervous system, creating contrast, surprise, or heightened arousal. Clinically, it is considered a type of sensation play within BDSM and broader kink practices, focusing on thermal extremes to evoke physical and psychological responses.
Common forms include dripping warm wax from body-safe candles, using ice cubes along erogenous zones, or applying warmed massage oils. Some participants enjoy chilled glass or metal toys, or the feeling of alternating between hot and cold sensations. The appeal often lies in the contrast and the anticipation of the next shift in temperature.
Psychologically, temperature play can invoke feelings of surrender, alertness, or emotional intensity. It allows the body to respond instinctively, often intensifying pleasure or drawing focus to specific areas. The dynamic between comfort and discomfort may also mirror power exchange or trust-based interactions.
Safety is crucial. Only candles specifically made for skin contact should be used, as regular wax can cause burns. Cold items must be checked to avoid frostbite or shock, especially in delicate areas. Communication and gradual escalation are key to ensuring a pleasurable experience.
Related terms include sensation play, wax play, ice play, and dominance and submission, each offering a different lens on temperature-based stimulation.
