Spanking refers to the consensual striking of the buttocks, typically with an open hand or implement, as a form of erotic stimulation, discipline, or power exchange. Clinically, it is categorised under impact play within the BDSM spectrum and may involve physical, psychological, or symbolic gratification.
Variations include hand spanking, the use of implements such as paddles, crops, or hairbrushes, and role play scenarios such as school discipline or authority punishment. Intensity levels vary widely, from light and playful to more structured or intense impact scenes. Some individuals enjoy the physical sensation itself, while others respond to the emotional dynamics it creates.
Psychologically, spanking can evoke feelings of surrender, arousal, emotional release, or reaffirmed connection between partners. For some, it recreates early disciplinary experiences in a safe, erotic context. When mutually desired and well-managed, it can strengthen intimacy and trust.
Safety involves pre-agreed limits, use of safewords, and knowledge of safe striking zones to avoid injury. The buttocks are generally considered safe for impact, but avoiding the lower back and spine is critical. Aftercare may include soothing touch and emotional support.
Related terms include impact play, corporal punishment fetish, discipline, and dominance and submission, which often intersect in spanking practices.
